re-inventing

Re-inventing ME

I have hickups at work again today

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA (hickup) AAAAAAAAAAAAAAA (hickup) aaaaaa (hickup -hickup)

2008 - when is it over???

Me and 1 other girl, are the only two true 'singles' at work.

 

All the rest live with family/ are married / whatever

 

Feeling a little sorry for myself...but then again, though I have it tough, hey: I'm a survivor!

 

It really is a crummy year though...our iron is broken and now I am dressing, what I call, creatively..that is, I only wear things that have stretch in it, so it does not look like I have fallen out of a laundry basket...

 

:-)

 

I feel a little lost too, but I know by the end of next month, I will be ok.

 

And this time peeps, please pray that I can afford single accommodation, like a true 'single'...I can't live with other people anymore. Kind of want to be ON MY OWN. Tired of people's cr*(*(...seriously!

 

And then, of course the money issue..but who doesnt have one, right?

my first car!

It has arrived!

My first car...

I am going to start a first car book...like a baby book!

WOW!

nou wat dink jy doen hulle?

the Question:

 

ISTT The International School of Tanning Technology website  

 

Dalene's answer: 

Dit is 'n baie ingewikkelde storie en baie technical om dit kortliks op te som - hulle TAN

 

ever felt like strangling someone?

 

 

 

hey, we all have had a break up

 

 

HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN
 
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
 
Slower is better.
 
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
 
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
 
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is
Don't stay because you think "it will get better"
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
 
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
 
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
 
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.  If something bothers you, speak up.
 
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
 
You cannot change a man's behaviour.* Change comes from within.
 
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
Even if he has more education or in a better job.
 
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
 
All men are NOT dogs.
 
You should not be the one doing all the bending...
Compromise is two way street.
 
You need time to heal between relationships...
There is nothing cute about baggage...
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
 
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
 
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
 
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted
 
Never move into his mother's house.  Never co-sign for a man.
 
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.*
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
 
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil